Today's insight: Why and how to find the 'side door' (aka unconventional ways to stand out and get what you want)
First, an analogy to help set the context...
The hottest night club's just opened in your city. Johnny Depp just won his case and he's throwing a party to celebrate. You want to get in (of course).
But...you get there and there's a huge line at the front door. There are *thousands* of people waiting.

You wait for an hour. The line doesn't move. You realize your fate — you're never going to make it in 🥵
So you think creatively. You get out of the line, you run down the back alley, climb over the dumpster and sneak through the kitchen. You're in.
You just found the side door — the entrance no one else was using.

The point of this story is not to convince you to sneak into clubs! It's to show you the power of getting what you want by doing creative things that no one else is doing. You should use this approach when thinking about your career too.
🚪 Most people take the front door when it comes to their careers — they do what everybody else is doing. Here's an example — 96%+ of job seekers mass apply to jobs on Indeed, Monster or LinkedIn using the one-click apply buttons.
Yes, this works — but it has the most competition because everyone is doing it. It's the front door.
🔑 For most jobs, there's almost always a side door.
It's the entrance that most people don't know exists. It might take some more effort to find, but when you find it, you're not competing with anyone else so you 10x your chances.
But these unconventional ways aren’t “just sitting there.” You have to be creative and do what no one else wants to do.
Examples
So let's go through an example of how to find the side door when it comes to finding a job.
Here's one more example.
If you're trying to grow your network, don't just add people on LinkedIn — that's the front door. Some unconventional side doors could be:
- Interview people and share their insights on your feed.
- Start a weekly email (like this one!).
- Organize an online networking event and bring similar likeminded people together.
- Optimize your LinkedIn profile so opportunities start coming to you.
This advice was inspired by the book, The Third Door, by Alex Banayan, and this Twitter thread by Romeen Sheth.
Do you have other ideas of the 'side doors'? Or 'hacks' that have set you apart in your job search or career? I'd love if you could let me know, and I'll share them in a future email — just hit reply.